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Emotions and Intelligence

When emotions go up intelligence goes down. How many times did you experience that fact–from either side? Someone in fear doesn’t hear anything. In fact anyone experiencing any emotions shuts out whatever you attempt to share. Neutralize the emotion first. … Continue reading

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How To Get Through To Someone

 Ever want to get a message across to someone without getting anywhere? You know they are not listening to your  words–even though they may pretend or appear to do so? Many reasons cause a person to shut out incoming messages. Someone … Continue reading

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Friendships: What Are Friendships About – Really?

Friendships serve  specific  purposes in your  life – the most important ones happen out of your awareness. People come into your life so you can grow through something you may not even know you want to learn. Those who stay … Continue reading

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The Opposite of Love Is…

The other day I shared what I discovered about the concepts of Love and Hate. They are not opposing notions but opposite ends of the same emotional continuum. What then, is the opposite of love? Take moment and think about … Continue reading

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Oh Yes OR Oh No Communication

When someone comes to you to talk you must honor their desires in this aspect otherwise DO NOT listen to them. Let them know what you can and cannot do regarding being their confidante. And never ever make this one … Continue reading

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Communication Must: Yes or No

When someone comes to you to talk you must honor their desires in this aspect otherwise DO NOT listen to them. Let them know what you can and cannot do regarding being their confidante. And never ever make this one … Continue reading

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Communication Means Participate in the Conversation

When someone comes to you to talk, part of their problem may come from not being able to clarify what is bothering them. Without that clarity they cannot possibly find the solution they seek. Discover exactly how to assist them … Continue reading

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#! The Characteristic of Great Listeners

When someone comes up to you and says, “I need to talk,” how do you step out of your world and become available to this person? Can you make yourself available right there and then? The #1 characteristic of a … Continue reading

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