Has gentleness gone by the way of the dinosaurs?
A prominent literary agent recently told me that putting notes in kids’ lunches is not sophisticated enough for today’s kids. I wondered, how could anyone not feel good about getting a note –a note just for him or her, that says, basically, “I am thinking about you because I love you.”
I wondered at the little girl, maybe nine years old, walking to the school bus stop in the morning talking on her cell phone. Have you ever been in a car (or worse, at a restaurant) and every person was talking to someone on his or her cell phone, rather than talking with the people in whose company they actually were at the time?
If each child has his or her computer in his or her own room, how can a family interact as a family? Do family members ever talk with one another these days? Do they enjoy each other’s company? Do they do fun things together? Or are they like ships at sea, waving as they pass each other while going their separate ways?
Do you wonder why the mother of one teenager (surely she is not the only one) spies on her child by reading her child’s blog? Big Brother–I mean Big Mother–is watching! Thank goodness she is.
Do you know that big corporations are launching ads to caution teens, especially teenage girls, about who may be lurking or posing to be someone else in places like Facebook.com? Why are teens needing to go online to find friends? Or someone to talk to?
How do you protect your children when there is no open communication between you and them?
The cost of being sophisticated seems to come at the high price of the disintegrating family and interpersonal relationships.
Schedule a live, in-person meeting with someone you like this week. Then be present 100% with them –no cell phone conversations or texting and NO hidden agendas or thinking about what else you “should” be doing. In fact, leave the electronics at home.
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