How to Meet and Be With Your Soulmate

couple copySo you want to know how to meet and be with your soulmate?
Most people totally misunderstand the entire concept of soulmate.
Somehow the media glamorized the idea of soulmate as people who are perfectly compatible and therefore live in perfect harmony.
Actually soulmates exists to bring out the best in each other. That result does not always happen in a supportive manner.
Sometimes a soulmate pushes all the buttons of their partner. Sometimes they are violent and dangerous to the person.
People learn what they came here to learn in all kinds of ways. Someone who mistreats you could well be your soulmate.
What? Yup. You see someone nasty, even violent, causes you to step out of your comfort zone–regardless of how uncomfortable you feel–your know zone still feels safer that the mysterious unknown.
So when you find yourself in a relationship where you get to be all you can be you may well be in that relationship with your soulmate. You really love the person you become when you are with that person.
Ah, that is the criteria for knowing when you are in love. However the person who leaves you feeling so wonderful and powerful may not be your soulmate. Determine if he or she is your soulmate by measuring your growth, your own soul’s growth.
All that said, I do not mean to imply your soulmate will not be someone gentle, loving, kind–whatever you put out to the Universe as your desire. Just live with awareness of your spiritual status.
The bottom line is we are each responsible for how our world looks. That includes out degree of happiness. It is never a question of, “When I am with my soulmate I feel good and when I am not with my soulmate I feel bad.” You create your happiness. You create your unhappiness.
So how do you attract your soulmate? People always find themselves attracted to people of like energy. You can only attract who you are.
So write a list of the traits of your soulmate, your desired partner. Then see which ones you need to develop yourself so you can attract someone like you.
You will attract the person you are. Always – even when you wonder how this certain person happened into your world. Sometimes we see in others parts of us we will not see in ourselves. For that reason make certain you are the person you want to be in life before sending your desire to meet your soulmate out to the Universe.

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