How To Get Through To Someone

 Ever want to get a message across to someone without getting anywhere? You know they are not listening to your  words–even though they may pretend or appear to do so?

Many reasons cause a person to shut out incoming messages. Someone in fear doesn’t hear anything.

In fact, anyone experiencing any emotions shuts out whatever you attempt to share.

Deal with the person where he or she is in the moment. Do not gloss over what their current experience, what they now feel. Eliminate the emotion using compassion and THEN speak what you want to share. Always stride to allow the other person to choose for himself or herself rather than be “sold” on your proposal.

Let’s empower rather than overpower.

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