How To Attract Happy People: Replace Negative Thinking

Why is it so hard to attract happy people for your relationships?

At some point in the recent past the default way of thinking changed from our natural way of living in abundance, where everything easily flows, to one of scarcity.

People automatically look for what is wrong and what is missing.

Today’s common facial expression is either blah or furrowed eyebrows with a scowl.

Take a look around you right now. What do you see? What does your own face portray in this moment? How do you feel anyway, right now?

What you focus on expands. When billions, of people across

the globe think negative thoughts of lack and anything but happiness, they add to the huge thought forms out in the ethers.

Given that 95% of people choose not to think for themselves, without awareness all those people plug into those thought forms increasing their magnitude.

How can you change that habitual way of thinking and being?

Quite simply, you choose to look for what is good, leaves you feeling happy, at peace,  and smiling.

When I lead a gathering of people the first thing I do is teach people how to do a Happy Share. What the heck is a Happy Share?

Sharing something that happened in your world that left you feeling really happy. Your Happy Share is not about what your kid did, or you parents, your partner or your best friend. A Happy Share happened to and benefited you directly.

So my child getting a standing ovation for a performance is not my Happy Share but hers. My Happy Share might be going online to buy an airline ticket and finding the route I desire is on sale, a really big sale. And the schedule fits my travel dates perfectly.

Got it?

Create the habit of looking for something that makes you happy happening in you life every day. Guess what. The more you notice happy things the more happy things appear in your life!

Shifting from negativity to happiness changes what you attract as the programs running in your subconscious now create a new folder and stuff it with evidence of happy things. The negativity folder will wither away since you stopped feeding it!

One more benefit of A Happy Share, when you share it with others you get to live it all over again. Your subconscious mind  cannot tell the difference between what is real and what you imagine. Therefore writing or speaking your Happy Share causes all the same feel good chemicals to run through your body again.

Neat, huh?

Tell us your Happy Share now and start your new focusing habit.

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4 Responses to How To Attract Happy People: Replace Negative Thinking

  1. Happy Share – I just had a bite of a toasted English muffin with homemade strawberry jam – better yet, it was my hubby holding the muffin for me to take a bite!

    Great re-focus post! Thanks.

  2. You have really interesting blog, keep up posting such informative posts!

    • Ali Bierman says:

      thank you for your kind words,. Lots of info here for you and lots more on the way. Come back often and ask any questions you have.

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