Category Archives: communication

Love Languages and Marriage Success

Your marriage may feel rocky because you and your spouse speak different love languages. Neither of you feels truly loved by the other. Is that accurate? What do I mean by love languages? Only when your spouse does or says … Continue reading

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Judgment: What is Judgment?

People who criticize others note behaviors they see (or imagine they see) in others that they refuse to acknowledge in themselves. Pay attention to the particular criticisms you hear to understand what lies hidden beneath the surface and probably out … Continue reading

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Relationships and Communication

Men and women are different, yes? Obviously. One basic difference lies in their communication styles and purposes. The fact is men and women speak different languages. Until you each learn to speak the common language (not really so hard – … Continue reading

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How To Talk Directly With Your Spirit To Make Your Best Choices

To get accurate information to live your life without guessing, discover how to communicate directly with your Higher Self–your Spirit. How and why do you  access your Spirit? The part of you that connects to the All-Is-One is your your … Continue reading

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Do Cell Phones and Computers Hurt Relationships?

Cell phones and computers – do they enhance or destroy relationships? I grew up when telephones had radial dials and were plugged into the wall. Without answering machines you never knew who did or didn’t call. AND you had so … Continue reading

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Emotions and Intelligence

When emotions go up intelligence goes down. How many times did you experience that fact–from either side? Someone in fear doesn’t hear anything. In fact anyone experiencing any emotions shuts out whatever you attempt to share. Neutralize the emotion first. … Continue reading

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How To Get Through To Someone

 Ever want to get a message across to someone without getting anywhere? You know they are not listening to your  words–even though they may pretend or appear to do so? Many reasons cause a person to shut out incoming messages. Someone … Continue reading

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The Opposite of Love Is…

The other day I shared what I discovered about the concepts of Love and Hate. They are not opposing notions but opposite ends of the same emotional continuum. What then, is the opposite of love? Take moment and think about … Continue reading

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Your Story Destroys Your Relationships

In my last post I told you about growing up thinking my mom didn’t love me and why I felt that way. I shared my story about my life, the fantasy I unknowingly made up to explain events and circumstances … Continue reading

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Mother-Daughter Relationship Healing

Much of my life, because I felt my mom didn’t love me I felt a lot of anger. Note that anger is a secondary emotion resulting from the primary emotions, in this case, hurt and disappointment. Embarrassing to share all … Continue reading

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