Smile: Save Your Relationship

You cannot experience two opposing emotions at the same time. When you smile you feel happy. Therefore you cannot feel angry, hurt or frustrated when you are smiling.
Do you see how a smile can get your rocky relationship back on track by pointing you in a new direction?
Watch the video for more information. Take on the challenge and begin smiling when you are with your partner – and even when you are not together. You will feel better and so will your spouse.

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Your Thinking and Your Happy Relationships

happy as you think

Your thoughts create your world. What goes on inside your mind gets reflected in your outer world.
You choose how to feel in every moment – every single one.

What impact, then, does your own thinking pattern have on how your relationships work – or fail to work?

No event has any meaning except for the one you assign.
As noted in my THRIVE! Don’t Just Survive Theme Song,
Its your choice to stay stuck in the muck.

You create your own luck.”

Translation: if your relationship feels yucky then you alone can change what is going on. NO blaming your partner. YOU interpreted what happened as hurtful.

If your partner did something that felt hurtful to you, well, you let it happen or you failed to voice your own feelings when it happened.

Chances are your partner does things that upset you without even knowing it. You do the same.

Share your experience below. When did you take charge of a situation that could have been very frustrating or sad and turn it into something useful in your life?

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Love Languages and Marriage Success

Your marriage may feel rocky because you and your spouse speak different love languages. Neither of you feels truly loved by the other. Is that accurate?

What do I mean by love languages?

Only when your spouse does or says what you need him or her to say or do will you feel loved. The catch is that your spouse likely has an entirely different way to express and to feel love and has no idea your needs are not being met.

Oh yeah, and your spouse’s needs to feel loved are also not being met for the same reason – different love languages keep you disconnected and at odds with one another – all without your awareness of what is happening.

I feel loved by another person when someone spends time with me, paying attention to me fully at 100% without thinking about their needs or creating what they alone want from me or a given situation.

You see, for me love is being real and being present with me. I also enjoy touching, especially hugs. After all, Virginia Satir, the founder of Family Therapy, said that we need 4 hugs a day to survive, 8 to get by, and 12 to thrive.

Have you ever noticed how your outlook shifts when someone hugs you or gently touches your hand?

Touch is a human need. A baby will die if it is not touched. Seniors are more prone to dementia if they have no friends or touching in their lives.

Do you know what love is for you? Do you know what your spouse needs to feel loved?

This video reveals how to save your marriage using modes of communication that are critical yet happen out of your awareness.

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Be You and Save Your Marriage

You are not who you think you are. You are not who others think you are. Same for your spouse or partner. Your partner is not who you think he or she is and he or she is not who he or she thinks they are.

Are you thoroughly confused? You won’t be after watching the video.

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Habits: Save Or End Relationships [TAT]

When you were a kid you started certain behavior patterns to get by and to create relationships. NOW, as an adult, do those same actions support or destroy your marriage? In Today’s Take Action Tuesday Challenge you will reveal what you are doing – and probably do not even know that you do it.

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Putting It Off Kills Your Relationship

What you keep putting off is slowly and surely killing your relationship – and probably destroying your health too. Take on the Challenge NOW to turn around your partnership.

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Your Belief System is Killing Your Relationship

Your belief system is killing your relationship. YOU can choose to save your marriage by doing this NOW…

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Your Most Important Relationship [TAT]

As human beings we live as social animals thriving in relationships with others. Whether those relationships simply encompass people who we meet in passing, clerks in the store, family, friends, or colleagues, makes no difference. AND our well being happens when we have at least one special relationship.

How is your relationship going, your romantic relationship with your partner?
In the award=winning song, People, a highlight of the 1964 Broadway musical Funny Girl (music by Jules Styne and lyrics by Bob Merrill) the lesson expounded simply states that “People who need people are the luckiest people in the world.”

Science tells us that people in successful relationships are healthier, happier and live longer. So I have an important question for you, “Who is the most important one in your life?”

Watch the video to discover the one and only person who MUST be #1 in your world. After all, you want to save your marriage and improve your relationship. Remember even a good relationship can still get better!

Do the Take Action Tuesday Challenge and allow us to celebrate that person with you.

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Accept Your Partner As Is [TAT]

Stop limiting the behaviors you accept in your partner and watch your relationship heal and light up in ways you never imagined. Ah ha, and therein lies the secret – acceptance allows in behaviors you never imagined possible.
Remember to share this info and make a difference for yourself, your partner and your friends.

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How You Are destroying Your Relationship

This one habit you do not even know you do is destroying your marriage. Stop limiting the behaviors you expect from your partner. Focus on the love you feel for your partner instead and watch your relationship heal and light up in ways you never imagined.

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